The Role of the Daka

The Daka is there to witness the divinity of the Goddess.  In doing this he is there to create a safe space where she is heard.  Tantra as a feminine modality requires the masculine to realize the non-duality that is its essence.

This is what the Daka provides the gift of hearing and being present with Her.

Therefore, the Daka's practice involves the cultivation of ever greater presence.  By being fully in the body, he can be most available; best able to support Her as she raises her voice.  This great service is a joy in the giving.  It is the root of the masculine practice.

In the sexual context, this becomes the motivation for ejaculation mastery and FBO (full body orgasm) cultivation.  Rather than being ego driven it is for purpose of connection.  In union with Her, in her moment of sexual expression, the Daka must have the wherewithal to be able to stay the course.  Be with her until she has expressed all that is within her.

This sexual practice is nothing more than a physical representation, a metaphor if you will, for something much deeper and more abiding.  The connection that is possible in service to the Goddess.

Thank you, Goddess, for allowing me to give to you.

TL