Tuesday, December 30, 2008 at 1:57PM The things you carry in your comfort zone maybe holding you back from making the changes you desire. If you want to go to another level in your relationship, move lovemaking into the stratosphere, and use that awesome sexual connection to transform your relationship and yourselves then you’re going to have to leave the baggage behind, baby!
Sunday, December 28, 2008 at 2:48PM A dynamic of control is common in relationships. Often for men, some level of control over their partner is a relationship requirement. Men and women who are attempting to change the dynamic of their relationship, to create a sense of egality and to not rely on a control dynamic, can confuse giving up control with submission. This is especially true for men since we are accustomed to being the one who controls.
Friday, December 5, 2008 at 7:00AM Many of us seek a LTCR (long term committed relationship). But what defines LTCR? Does commitment mean exclusivity in thought, in feeling, in intimacy, in all aspects of our life? We believe that once we’ve entered into a LTCR, we have won the right to expect our partner to become everything we need, and want, and desire. The attachment that most have to this set of expectations is the hallmark of many relationships and their failure.
Friday, November 21, 2008 at 4:42AM When the nature of relationships were defined for us, by our religion, our culture, our traditions, few would have to ask, "What are you looking for in a relationship?" There was no need to ask the question since everyone new the definition, already. In today's world, things are no longer so clear. Where cultures blur and change is constantly occurring, many seek to redefine themselves and who they are.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 4:38AM When I awoke this morning, I felt myself called to put on music. Suddenly I found myself dancing around the kitchen. As I danced and moved, I realized that thought was the infection that stifled the dance within me.